Just looking at this, this blogger contends that Shelley Malil has a "Trophy Blonde Issue" where he had to possess a white, blonde woman. The accounts of his relationship with Kendra Beebe in The Daily Mail UK seem to back my claim, but before I go there, let me explain.
Some men of color in America, and fortunately not all by any stretch, think they have to have a white, blonde woman to improve their self-image and self-esteem. In other words, in a World that discriminates against them, having a blonde woman would seem to be a way of getting revenge.
That's the only way to explain why Shelley Malil, who was in the movie 40-Year-Old Virgin, would take the crazy action of stabbing Beebe 23 times.
A man who loves a woman doesn't seek to harm her. Period. And, yes, my point about dark men is really stupid when you consider how blonde women are sought after by white guys, too. But let's press on.
Reading the Daily Mail UK's reports of their stormy relationship only gives strength to my claim about Mr. Malil:
Malil, 45, testified at trial that he visited Beebe at her San Marcos home in suburban San Diego in August 2008 to apologise for taking personal items from her house and to warn that he e-mailed sexually explicit photos of the couple to her co-workers...He stabbed her with a kitchen knife after finding her drinking wine with another man.Now other reports were that he found her with another man in bed, not that she was just drinking wine with another man. Shelley went by her home - Ms. Beebe's home - and found her with a guy named David Maldonado in her backyard.
That's crazy, man.
It reads like he was stalking her to her house. Now how did he meet her? Via an online dating site. Frankly, while many people use online dating sites - and I have too and have a profile, that I let just lapse - there's a huge risk involved with picking a person out just by looks. It's better to get to know the woman; there's something to be said for meeting a woman the old fashioned way: in public or via friends. To me, it's just more authentic.
Plus, it seems a little much for an actor like Shelley Malil, who's face is already out there, to have to use an online dating site to find someone.
Think about it. The 40-Year-Old Virgin - where Malil played Haziz, a co-worker of Steve Carell's character in 'The 40-Year-Old Virgin' - was made and released in 2005. Shelley met Kendra online in 2007. That means even after his stardom, Malil couldn't find a date just hanging out in public.
Given how Malil treated Beebe, the whole tail seems to say more about how screwed-up he was than anything about society. Remember, Kendra picked him out, too.
What does this say about her? Nothing. She had male friends. Big deal. In fact, that she had male friends and Malil was stalking her, says even more about his issues. Heck, if he can't find a hot woman to hang out with in LA, there's really something wrong with him.
Whatever's going on, blonde ambition or whatever (and there's nothing wrong with thinking blondes are hot at all), Shelley will have a long time in the slammer to figure that out now. He's been sentenced to life in prison, with possibility of parole.
What a way to screw up one's life.
The one take-away should be this: be happy with who you are and don't let a woman define who you are.
Also, stop Internet trolling. The guys who troll and flame bloggers on the Internet should get off the computer and spend time out in public meeting nice women. They need the social skills practice, anyway.
And if you're married and Internet trolling, you're wasting valuable time you could be spending with your wife.
Go to her, now!
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