Evan Rachel Wood Bisexual Or Just A Hedonist?

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Reading that True Blood star Evan Rachel Wood says to Esquire Magazine that she's bisexual sparked this blogger's memory and back to a period where much time was spent with a woman who was terrific in bed, but decided, one day, she was bisexual.

But before that story unfolds, Esquire reports that Wood said "I grew up in love with David Bowie. So I was always into very androgynous things. Guys, girls ... I'm into androgyny in general."

Too bad she didn't say she was into being with one person. Right now, Wood's with Marilyn Manson, but for how long?

Like my relationship, Wood's and Manson's has been on-again, off-again, on-again. After a time, you get dizzy.

Back to the story remembered that set off this blog post.

My girlfriend's revelation came right at the time she decided she missed a woman who's name she happened to see online as we were surfing. That led to an argument, and she stormed out and off to some part of Lake Merritt; eventually, she returned.

My only point to her was that, bisexual or no, you have to pick one person to be with - I'm not sharing. I also said she was looking for an excuse to be a hedonist. Male. Female. It doesn't matter, as long as the pleasure is hers to obtain, at times, at the expense of others, more pointedly, the ones who they're in a relationship in.

I should also add that she was a manic depressive.

That's not to imply that Evan Rachel Wood is manic depressive, but she is a hedonist.   A declaration of bisexuality is nothing more than a declaration of hedonism.

II'm not against hedonism, just the opposite but only where it's appropriate and no one gets hurt - some people are, shall we say, addicted to it in all forms. For example, I'm not bisexual.  And it's those that have no problem acting to achieve their own pleasure objectives, and damn how it impacts you.

Ms. Wood can have it both ways - until she gets hurt rather than be the one doing the hurting.

This certainly will piss off some, and it should. But the experience of this blogger with women who claim to be "bi" is they're so into themselves, they can't be counted on to be in a long-term relationship, unless it's on-again, off-again, you get the idea. That's my experience. More than the one time recounted here.